We had a Happy Father's Day yesterday. Tyson got a Bass Pro gift card, and I made a two-tiered cake with homemade chocolate frosting. We went over to my parents' to celebrate with a b.b.q. My dad was really happy to have everyone together.
Here are a few reasons why Tyson is the most wonderful father in the world:
1. Bathtime jam sessions every night- Tyson plays his I phone playlist every night while he gives Jack a bath. It's almost like story time, but with rock & roll and country classics.
2. Acrobats with Dad- I might tickle and flip Jack upside-down but lets face it, Moms are more gentle. Jack loves messing around with his Dad, and Tyson gets him laughing so hard. There's just something about rough-housing with Dad.
3. Mornings with Dad- Tyson takes Jack to daycare on the mornings that I work. It's nice that Jack and Tyson get to spend a little morning quality time together before starting a busy work day. I think as Jack gets older, Tyson and I will especially remember those stolen moments of closeness.
4. Daddy's nicknames for Jack- Tyson has an array of endearing nicknames for Jack including but not limited to: Little Buds, Sport, Sporty, Champ, and Buddy. He responds to any of these names :)
5. Playing in the backyard- Tyson takes care of our garden on a daily basis and he likes to bring Jack out with him. I love to peek out the window and watch him holding Jack while he's watering, or b.b.qing, or pushing him on the swing. Jack is just like his daddy- he loves being outdoors.
6. Reading with Dad- Tyson has a newfound appreciation for Dr. Suess books. We even joke around sometimes and make up our own rhymes. Having a child definitely makes you reflect on your own childhood memories.
7. Poop patrol- Not that Tyson enjoys changing diapers (does anyone?!), but he's not afraid to take on the real stinkers....believe me, I appreciate that!
8. Daddy calms Mom's fears- Tyson calms my totally irrational fears on a daily basis. I tend to be a worrier- "Does he have a fever?!", "Will he get his head caught in the crib railing when I'm not looking?!", "Did that cough sound serious to you?!"...and the question Tyson is probably the sickest of- "Do you think he's o.k.?" Marrying a laid-back man was truly a wise choice on my part.
9. Laying on the couch together- About two weeks ago I witnessed the cutest thing I've ever seen. Jack had just woken up, and I laid him with his bottle next to Tyson on the couch. Jack reached his arm over and put it around Tyson's shoulder, and layed there for a good 20 minutes. I took a mental snapshot and will freeze that memory in my brain forever.
10. Unconditional love- The transition from boyfriend/girlfriend, to husband/wife, to dad/mom seemed very smooth for Tyson and I. It is amazing how quickly it went from the two of us being the most important person in each other's lives, to our family being the most important thing to both of us. We agree that the unconditional love we have for Jack is something that will never change. Watching Tyson be a father has no doubt made my love for him grow deeper. Jack is the best thing that ever happened to us!